Straight answers
The things
people ask.
Payment, planning, privacy and a few sensible ground rules. Clear expectations make everything easier.
Who can book, and what are your boundaries?
I only accept bookings from people aged 30 or over. My rules on safety, drinks, transport, conduct and communication apply to every booking. Please read the Boundaries & ground rules before enquiring. These boundaries are not negotiable.
What am I paying for?
My time and companionship for the agreed duration. All prices on this site are presented on that basis.
How do standard and social rates differ?
Standard companionship is priced in duration blocks: £350 for one hour, £550 for two, £750 for three or £850 for four. Social dates are time together at an agreed public venue or outing, at £150 per hour with a two hour minimum.
Can I combine a social date with standard companionship?
Yes, subject to availability and an agreed schedule. The social part must be at least two hours. The fixed packages are £550 for 2 social hours plus 1 standard hour, £750 for 2 social hours plus 2 standard hours, and £1,000 for 3 social hours plus 3 standard hours. Other combinations receive 15% off the combined time fees. No further discount is applied to the fixed package prices. Social outing expenses, such as meals and tickets, are additional and are not discounted. The standard companionship rate stays the same whichever agreed meeting location we use.
Are meals, tickets and travel included?
Meals, tickets and entry charges for social outings are additional. Standard companionship rates stay the same for an outcall, your hotel or a hotel I arrange. The £100 deposit is part of the booking total and covers my time and travel to an outcall, or the hotel fee if a hotel is required. We agree all arrangements and any social outing expenses before confirming.
Where are you based?
East Lothian, with arrangements in Edinburgh and the surrounding area by agreement. Exact meeting details are shared privately after the arrangements have been confirmed.
How much notice do you need?
Please arrange bookings at least 24 hours ahead. Same day bookings are not available. A date is only reserved once I have confirmed it and any required payment arrangements are complete.
How do deposits and payments work?
The deposit is £100, paid up front. You can pay the full £100 to me, or £50 to me and £50 directly to a charity I choose. For the charity option, you must send a screenshot confirming the donation. I send an invoice from my business account, which you can pay by card; bank transfer is also available. The deposit arrangement counts toward your listed booking total. Please read the payment information for the remaining balance and arrival arrangements.
What do you need for a meeting at my hotel?
Please send me a copy of your hotel reservation, a photograph of your room card or key, and clear directions to the room. If access requires a keycard, please meet me outside or downstairs and accompany me to the room. Share these details privately through the agreed booking contact.
What if I need to cancel or reschedule?
With at least 48 hours’ notice, I refund the deposit paid to me. With at least 24 but less than 48 hours’ notice, I refund half of the deposit paid to me, or offer the opportunity to move the booking to another date. With less than 24 hours’ notice, I keep the deposit. The full outstanding balance for the cancelled booking must be paid before I will consider seeing you again; any future booking requires a fresh deposit. No shows lose their deposit and are automatically blacklisted. Charity donations remain with the charity and are not refundable through me. Please read the full cancellation rules, including future booking restrictions.
What do you need in an enquiry?
Your name, preferred date and start time, booking type and duration, general location and a brief outline of your plans. Messages that simply say “hey” will be ignored. Please include full booking details in your first message.
What are your safety and behaviour rules?
Respectful communication, agreed boundaries and a safe meeting arrangement are essential. I will not tolerate demands, entitlement or intimidating behaviour from men. Speaking badly about other companions will blacklist you from any future bookings. No unannounced visits, extra guests or changes to the meeting location without agreement. I may decline or end a meeting if I feel unsafe or boundaries are not respected.
Can I take photographs or record anything?
Photographs and video require my prior agreement and an additional £100 fee. For filming only, the fee can be waived if you agree that I may use the footage commercially, provide photo ID, and sign both a contract and a model release form before filming. Please arrange this in advance. No photography or recording without permission.
Can I extend the booking on the day?
You can ask, but extra time depends on availability and a newly agreed fee. Please do not assume it is available or included.
Is the booking planner sending you my details?
No. It only creates a message on your device for you to read and copy. It does not send an enquiry, reserve time or take payment. Copy your message and send it to enquiry@meetrhea.site or @ScottishRhea on Telegram.
How should I pay the remaining balance?
Cash is preferred: please place the balance in an envelope and hand it to me as soon as I arrive. I will count it discreetly. If you prefer bank transfer, the balance must be in my account at least three hours before the booking starts. I will not set off unless it has arrived.
Do you welcome disabled clients?
Absolutely. Disabled clients are very welcome. If you are disabled or have any accessibility requirements, please let me know when enquiring so we can discuss what you need and agree a suitable venue and meeting arrangements.
How do you protect my information?
Your privacy matters to me. I treat client information confidentially and keep it secure. I securely delete personal client list and booking information 12 months after our last date. If you would prefer it removed sooner, please contact me through our agreed booking contact and ask to be removed from my client list. Financial records I am legally required to retain are kept separately for the required period.
Do regular clients receive priority?
Absolutely. Regular clients are especially welcome. I like to spoil my regulars with a little extra thought and attention, and you receive priority when arranging dates, subject to availability.
How can I contact you?
For booking enquiries, email enquiry@meetrhea.site or message @ScottishRhea on Telegram. Include your preferred date, time, duration and general location.
How quickly will you reply, and what should I send?
I have a life, a family and commitments outside work, so I rarely reply instantly. Please give me time to respond. Messages that simply say “hey” will be ignored. Send a full enquiry with your name, preferred date, start time, booking type, duration and general location in your first message. If you send excessive messages before I have even replied to your initial enquiry, you will rule yourself out of a booking.
Will buying your content help me get a booking?
No. Buying my content makes no difference to whether I accept a booking. It does not give you priority or guarantee that we will meet. Every booking enquiry is considered separately.
Do you have a personal safety contact?
Yes. My personal safety contact will always know where I am, and I will check in with them periodically throughout our date.
Can you withdraw from a booking?
Yes. I reserve the right to withdraw from a booking at any time.
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